How do keep my ex boyfriend in range so i can get him back and what should i do?
Friday, September 3rd, 2010 at
4:49 am
We were together for 9 months and all of a sudden he broke up with me. He says stress builds and we fought a lot. But i love him and really want to show him that we can change even if he doesn’t think so i want to show him! I need him, what should i do??
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Okay first off all get that thought out of your head thinking that you “need him” because you DON’T, don’t depend and give your all to a man, because when you do and they leave you’ll end up how you are right now. I think you should give it time and kind of move on. If he hasn’t done anything to reconcile the relationship then he’s not interested in you AT THE MOMENT.
Give him and you some space. Don’t talk to him, msg him, or email him until you feel like you are ready to move on. Once you feel that you are ready to move on, think back at your relationship and see if it was mostly good (like you probably thought) or if it was bad, in which case you can move on. But then if you feel that you do want to be with him still, you can communicate with him again but have him work get back with you, don’t just give your self to him.
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Best of luck to you…
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Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
Good luck!